Ten qualities of leadership

There are many theories about leadership and management. Generally it is believed that a leader sets a new direction for a group of people whereas a manager directs and controls with the established principles. A leader takes a longer-term perspective and seeks to initiate change for the better to interest and inspire people to commit to a vision. Mostly the two functions support and complement one another. Many outstanding leaders are also very competent managers-but that is not necessarily the case for all the leaders. There are many types of leaders such as democratic, autocratic, charismatic, accommodative, altruistic etc. There are different types of leaders even among monarchs (like Alexander, Asoka, and Akbar) and political heads (like Kennedy, Indira Gandhi and Gorbachev). It does not matter what kind of personality you are. Real life lessons make it clear that without certain basic qualities a de jure leader will be thrown out by a de facto leader. Whether it is autocracy or democracy, just because you have access to leadership due to circumstances, you cannot become a leader and sustain it without the basic qualities to lead. Irrespective of your personality, you need to have the basic qualities to be a true leader. What are these qualities?

1. Realize your inner urge

A leader has an inner urge to lead. If you have this urge, you will be a leader some day. But you need to realize this urge and also your unique value that differentiates you from the rest. This is the basis of a confident leader. All other factors like training and learning can help to polish and shape this urge to bring out the leader in you.

2. Believe in your goal

A leader always has an intense desire to achieve the goal which he believes as important. Without firm belief in a goal no one can lead. Educating the poor was dear to Kamaraj, feeding the poor was important to MGR; freedom of India was the goal of Mahatma Gandhi. Think of a goal for which you live and believe that your life is incomplete without achieving it. This gives you the power to lead.

3. Show the way

Always be ready to walk in a way that nobody has walked before. A leader can be a leader only when he has people to follow him. A leader should have something in him for people to follow him.  People follow you only when they trust you. Every one trusts the brave and honest that can show the way.

4. Communicate in your style

All leaders have effective communication skills. It need not be verbal always. For example, to express love a look is better than words. You may have your unique technique. But what is in your mind must reach your followers exactly the way you thought about it. This cements you with your team.

5. Love to give

A leader finds happiness in giving; contributes more and consumes less. You are celebrated and admired by your followers because you put your goal and your team above your personal needs. Nobody in human history has become a leader without some sacrifice. If you are a leader you will love to sacrifice some of your personal needs for the common goal.

6. Innovate to grow

Whether you are in corporate, politics or trade, you need to grow. A leader has the urge to grow and always innovates new ways to keep growing. You can lead as long as you grow yourself and the organization.

7. Influence as role model

Have you ever seen a leader without the power of influence? A leader influences his team with his own behavior. Nobody will follow a leader with just empty words. Influencing power comes from the capability of setting an example. Show your team that you can stitch your shirt, wash your plate and clean your toilet when required. This is possible only with self esteem, hard work and continuous practice.

8. Dedicate yourself

Dedication to the cause is a natural quality of a true leader. This dedication should be in your mind all the time irrespective of your different activities. Leadership is never a ‘nine to five’ job. Relieving the pain of your followers makes   the most lovable experience of this dedication. Everyone loves you as long as you are meaningful to them. This is possible only when you dedicate yourself for the cause, a common cause of your team.

9. Inspire as fire

People need inspiration. A leader, inspired by his own cherished principles, in turn inspires people. Inspiration is like fire. It is always hot and bright, anything comes near it catches fire. A leader is always full of energy with cheerful face-glows like fire and inspires.

10. Excel in difficult times

Every person performs well in good times. A leader excels in difficult times. People look for a leader in tough times. In fact, a difficult time is the best time for an emerging leader. No doubt a leader performs well in good times but in tough times when everyone else succumbs, the leader excels and guides others.

-Arasu Ramanujam

Cricket, life and God

India, a nation of 1.21 billion people, is celebrating the win of the Cricket world cup 2011. The victorious captain M.S Dhoni has said that the team has been preparing for the past two years to achieve this great victory. Cricket legend Sachin Tendulkar has described this as the proudest moment of his life. The tears in the eyes of these great cricketers speak volumes of what it means to them and the country. For a cricket loving nation like India, it is not just cricket; it is a lot more including diplomacy. Though the entire competition was an interesting event, the final was thrilling and many a prediction was proved wrong. It is human nature to predict before the results. Whether it is individual effort like preparing for an exam or a team effort like sports, the results are finally given by God based on the efforts and universal laws. Therefore God is called karma phala dhata (One who gives the result of actions). Any incident that had happened so happened with the blessings of God. Sometimes things happen as we expect and sometimes not, and as humans we cannot comprehend these at all times. 2011 Cricket world cup final is a classic example of twists and turns of events before the final verdict. Imagine a conversation with God as an attempt to know how His unfailing laws work-

·         Why did Sachin not get his hundredth hundred in this match?

Sachin has to achieve a lot more in the coming years. In this final match it was a chance given to youngsters like Gautam, Virat and Yuvraj to show their ability. They wanted to dedicate this cup to Sachin, isn’t it?

·         The Newspapers talked a lot about a battle between the bat and ball of two veterans, Sachin and Murali in the final. Why did such a thing never happen?

They’ve had enough of that earlier. They will have more in IPL. Sachin or Murali never spoke about it. It was just the media, again.

·         Why Gautam missed his hundred in this match?

He has done a wonderful job. This is just the beginning. He needs to learn more before he can get a century in a big match, and Yuvraj had a role to play in the end with Dhoni.

·         Dhoni did not do well with his bat in this tournament. How did he do that magic 91 when needed?

You guys see only what happened on that day. You do not know how he prepared himself for this event. He calls it ‘the process’. Captain cool deserves this and more. (Don’t ask me more about more)

·         Srilanka were 183 for 5 and then stormed to reach 274 for 6. How did this happen?

Listened to Sangakkara? He said, “India are favorites, but we are not underdogs.” World cup has its weight.

·         After the exit of Sehwag and Sachin many thought India lost it. Why couldn’t Srilanka take advantage and tighten the screws?   

Winning the toss is not winning match. It is a long way to go. The Indians gave away runs in the end and wickets in the beginning - for a change. That was not the end; a different game was to come in to test the tenacity, skill, knowledge, experience, presence of mind and patience.

·         Every analyst said ‘bat first and win’, centurions don’t end in the losing side, and host nation cannot win. How did India win against all odds?

This is game......and everything is game…..my game.

·         Everyone said before the finals that the victory depends on the batting of openers. It was the middle order who did it. How?

Oh….That is the lesson of life. Don’t lose heart. Do your best and leave the rest to Me. Keep going. The result will come to you.

The laws of God are difficult to understand but never fail. This is true to cricket and life.

-Arau Ramanujam